This PR changes the following:
- `StoreEvent` now only stores an event (and possibly prev event),
instead of also doing redactions
- Adds a `MaybeRedactEvent` (pulled out from `StoreEvent`), which should
be called after storing events
- a few other things
This PR changes a few things:
- It pulls out the creation of several NIDs from the `StoreEvent`
function to make the functions more reusable
- Uses more caching when using those NIDs to avoid DB round trips