Adds tests for `QueryRestrictedJoinAllowed`, `IsServerAllowed` and
`PerformRoomUpgrade`. Refactors the `QueryRoomVersionForRoom` method to
accept a string and return a `gmsl.RoomVersion` instead of req/resp
structs.
Adds some more caching for `GetStateEvent`
This should also fix#2912 by ignoring state events belonging to other
users.
